Are you CHOOSING? Or... are you DECIDING? What's the difference?

We all make decisions every day, big and small. But are we really choosing, or are we just deciding?

Choosing is about making a conscious decision from a place of awareness and intention. It's about knowing what you want and going after it. It's about being in control of your life and making choices that align with your values.

Deciding, on the other hand, is about making a decision based on what you think you should do. It's about being influenced by others or by your circumstances. It's about being reactive instead of proactive.

So, how can you tell if you're choosing or deciding?

Here are a few questions to ask yourself:

• What are my values?

• What do I want?

• What is important to me?

• What are my options?

• What are the consequences of each option?

• What feels right?

If you can answer these questions with confidence, then you're likely choosing. But if you're not sure, then you may be deciding.

Here are a few tips for choosing:

• Be aware of your values. What is important to you? What do you stand for?

• Set your intentions. What do you want to achieve? What do you want to create?

• Be mindful of your thoughts and feelings. What is your gut telling you?

• Take action. Don't just sit around and wait for things to happen.

• Be patient. It takes time to develop the habit of choosing.

Choosing is not always easy. It takes time, effort, and self-awareness. But it's worth it. When you choose, you take control of your life and create the life you want to live.

So, what are you waiting for? Start choosing today!

Here are some additional thoughts on the topic:

• The difference between choosing and deciding is often subtle.

• We can often be influenced by our emotions, habits, and biases, even when we think we're choosing.

• It's important to be aware of these influences and to make conscious choices.

• Choosing is a skill that can be learned and developed.

• By choosing, we can create a life that is more fulfilling and meaningful.

Now go out there and start choosing!